The Attractiveness Effect

How do you feel when you click with someone you feel is out of your league and/or better looking than you? Do you feel intimidated by them? Does it make you feel better about yourself because they take an interest in you?

I feel good about myself, but i also feel intimidated because you think more about your own qualities compared to myself. But no one is perfect so remembering that helps.

Ehh not really don't mind meeting new ppl besides eceryone isn't perfect it's a fact of life and when ppp reply t makes me happy nce to meet new ppp online and in real life

I've never really bothered to think about this til I met my friend Bethany last year. She's awesome sure, but she's just got that perfect figure that you'd imagine they always had someone ask them out. Course, doesn't help that she hung out with my group, and with how close we are, people always assume she's Lesbian. The only thing I could say is intimidating is how thin she is, since I'm unable to lose any weight. It just drops by two then stays steady like that or I gain weight, but if you've seen my grandparents/family you can see why it bothers me.

Yeah, I'd say that I get a little intimidated when I think that someone is attractive. I usually don't feel very confident around them, maybe because I don't have an overwhelming self esteem.

I'd gauge them out to the best of my ability, but not worry too much about it. Friendship comes first, and if you spend enough time with them you'll probably find out eventually. Attractive people typically don't realize they're attractive anyways :P

if you click with someone I think a good part of the war has been won already which are the first impressions. Leagues are a bit of a myth when it comes to relationships, standards exist and you can crush them if you know how to be yourself and project a friendly-good nature forward to others! Remember, even the most beautiful individual wont be tolerated if he's crazy, abusive or an asshole!