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mariahaise
Am I the only girl that feels attracted to older guys? I just realized that the qualities I like on a man are something I won't ever be able to find on a boy my age so what about you? Do you find older guys attractive? What is your minimum age range? And what characteristics do you hope to find in older guys? Personally my age range would be from 18 to 25. Always older than me but not too old for me anyways.
jojoni
Aug 27, 15 at 11:05pm
If the older person is "stable" (mentally & financially), why not?
darkschneider
It is not that unusual. Older men are typically more financially established and act more serious and mature so they appear as a more secure option for a woman than a younger man who is still getting his life setup and is typically less mature/confident. Women are usually drawn to what will seem statistically the best outcome for an ideal long-term mate in their mind if even only subconsciously. Men often date younger women as it's associated to status, youth, beauty, vitality, and most importantly optimal reproductive success. I get 20-somethings flirting with me all the time. I now understand how all the older dudes I used to resent swept up women in the night clubs in my 20s. We were wired this way by nature to insure we thrive as a species but can manage/exploit it if we are cognizant of it.
vampire_neko
18-25 is "older guys"? Lol! I guess technically, since you are 17...
mariahaise
Aug 28, 15 at 9:30am
Yes I meant taking my age into count lol sorry I didn't mean something more drastic than that. @vampire
mariahaise
Aug 28, 15 at 9:32am
Completely agree with you @Darku
kawaiicatnekos2
if I was 15 I like 18 are 20 year older guys :L
enerezu
Aug 28, 15 at 9:44am
I think older guys have a sense of responsibility and stuff like that... so it's not strange to like someone older than you...
tthedragon
Aug 28, 15 at 9:58am
Also, women mature faster than men, so they seek that maturity~ http://img1.ak.crunchyroll.com/i/spire1/9c7f70be066fba081406c1662c14639e1413587231_full.jpg ~T
vampire_neko
"if I was 15 I like 18 are 20 year older guys :L" yeah, until they get arrested for statutory rape... Guys don't really mature too often until their late 20s to 30s, some not even then. Also age doesn't really have much to do with financial stability. Some guys are born into rich families and drive a Lamborghini to school. I Just bought my second vehicle ever, a 1988 Ford van, lol. And never made over 20k a year. Though it is common for girls to date older guys and guys to date younger girls. Though not all guys date younger girls for the youth reasons. I've dated younger girls just because that's what is available in the dating pool and they share similar interests like anime and conventions and such. My last girlfriend was 18 when I was 32. (She just turned 25).
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