Chatting with somebody's girlfriend

The situation with her current boyfriend is this: they knew each other from college. It's just one of those situations where if she were not already seeing this guy, we could easily have started dating. If the guy she was dating was my enemy, I would consider luring her away. However, the guy has been nothing but friendly to me so I feel perfectly content not pursuing her.

The way i see it is you never steal someone's girlfriend here is the reason why: lets say you were the boyfriend and she met someone like you who she had chemistry with, then she leaves you. How would that make you feel? Pretty crappy right? Well basically saying if she was so easy to steal from her current boyfriend, whats to say that she isnt as easy to steal from you? Obviously she wasnt as loyal to the first why would she be to the second. Just the fact that she is talking to you like that despite already having a relationship is a major flag for me but idk thats all you

It's a really complicated situation to explain because I have never encountered it before. Yes, we really enjoy talking to eachother because we have so much in common. The way we interact with each other is smooth and natural. Despite all this, she hasn't made any moves on me and remains duty-bound to her boyfriend. There is no doubt she is loyal to him. But you know, it's just one of those things where I think, 'man, if she had met me first things would have worked out great'. I think her and I have made an unsaid agreement to not rock the boat. I honestly wish them the best of luck and hope I find a similar girl for myself. But man, she is so sexy, guys. She is that rare combination of attractiveness inside and out. Agh, morals, why do you get in my way all the time T_T

fok it go for it

Well, is it stealing if she willingly goes for you? Like I said, I had the same deal happen just recently. Am I pissed at the guy for lack of consideration? He'll yeah. I do however recognize that my relationship wasn't exactly as healthy as it should've been, but she made her decision and told me everything before even making a decision. I give my ex respect for at least not hiding a thing, but I absolutely hate that there was no respect given to how I'd feel about the whole deal. That's ok, I'm moving on, but things will never be the same and she better not even think about coming back and expecting something. It's hard enough to call her a friend at this point and she wonders why...

i personaly thinks its okay just friendly chit chat what not but i agree you shouldn't steal someones apartner male or female