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Chatting with somebody's girlfriend

yukiteru_amano
if you believe it is true, confess and see what happens if you don't believe it's true, just forget about it ... if you're just in a gray area and have no idea, then prayers to you and try not to ruin peoples' lives lol not being a troll, but it seems like a simple answer to me
jm89
Jun 26, 15 at 1:48am
Honor and virtue... I wouldn't avoid telling someone how I feel yet it's also harmed relationships in the past for me. Be patient, if she likes you she'll make herself available to you.
miekeuyt
First guy wins. She's not available, so that's that. If she later becomes available, you're free to go for it. But relationships are complicated enough without a love triangle getting in the way. Leave her be.
paatback
What kind of boyfriend wouldn't want their girlfriend to make friends. Theres no problem if your close to her instead. When she needs help, maybe youll be the one she will go to.And wouldn't that be amazing too?
jacob1
I say keep doing what your doing. Who knows she may dump her boyfriend and start dating you. She may already like you more then her boyfriend. All is fair in love and war.
kohagura
For any love-triangle type of thing that goes on, I believe it's the person who is being fought over who should be responsible. So it's her choice what to do, if she wants to stay with him, leave him for you, or... something else.
ceevee
I believe the saying goes sumthin go Lee suthin score sumthin win grill.... xP
stellalina
Don't do it. Because if you steal her away, karma will come back and ram you in the ass. And trust me it won't feel good when your the boyfriend who's girlfriend is getting stolen from.
testarossa
Try to put yourself in a position where you were the boyfriend. Even if there is chemistry there, and even if you do have a strong connection, you need to do it right. Otherwise you will build a relationship that was built on a transition from one person to the other. It may end up working out alright, and it may end up being the best relationship of your life, but personally...I would always have a bad taste in my mouth with the knowledge of "how" I got into that relationship. In short. Always go about things in a way you can feel proud of later.
ladune
I would say atm: all is fine! You don't have to do anything at this point! Just stay friendly and be a nice person to talk too. I can imagen you are all restless on the inside but you don't have to show it... Good thing you talk about it.. but I wonder a little bit: aren't you being a little too head over heels with her? Yes you are very enthousiastic but what about her? You don't know... we don't know.. All you know for now is that she has someone else she seems to be very happy with. So the way i see it you can do two things: 1) just stay within reach distance and be cool and patient.. if she really , really likes you.. she will come to see you.. warning: it can be she just wants to be friends and enjoy your company as friends ...if thats not the case it is possible she starts making moves and do suggestive actions that will confuse you (carefull in that case)...or outright confess how she feels to you (lucky guy). 2) if you feel you cant stay cool and patient then there is only one thing left to do.. confess how you feel for her. but it would do you damn good credit in that case if you approach and talk to her about it in a respectfull and above all honest manner. no hidden cards. ..could be your lucky day... it would be scary as hell but if you truly do it in such a manner you will only gain her respect...even if she turns you down at that point .. you will have her respect and you can walk away with your head high.. meaning that even if she turns you down you are a winner! and after that... just pretend like nothing happened when you come across her next time..you are on good terms right?
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