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Looking for the "one" :3

alchemy91
Well as the title implies, I'm looking for that one person who can make my life whole. For even an instance be able to share same passions, same goals, same hearts amd same souls. Someone who would understand what it's like to have been alone and know that when we meet, that sense of loneliness, that feeling of being lost in the world will slowly fade away. I love being poetic, but yeah... that's what I mean by finding the "one" (:
metaljester
Jun 03, 15 at 8:24pm
Don't let yourself be caught up in finding that kind of person moreover somebody with the exact same goals and whatnot. Relationships work far better when the two people have different interest with a mix of common interest rather then all the same. Also whilst having somebody does fill the void of being alone, it is a primal form of finding a relationship, and usually does not create healthy connections. Long term anyways.
yaasshat
Dude, stop.... I mean, you're seriously shooting yourself in the foot here. You already made a thread along the same line. I'm only telling you as a fellow, caring single male. If you have any thought of even trying to try here, you're in a downward spiral. Desperate people are not sought out. I fully understand how you feel, but you truly aren't doing yourself any justice. Here's what I did a few years back (I should mention I'm only newly single again, but single is single.) I used to write as if I was writing to my lover and just spill my heart when I was lonely. I actually still have all those things I wrote, but I honestly intend on those things only being for the woman I intend to spend my life with. Anyways... That was very therapeutic for me. I have a romantic soul and love writing poetry as well. But, you really need to ask yourself, are you in love with the idea of love or are you willing to wait and be patient until you find love? Also, take the idea of "the one" out of your head. I've been in love multiple times, but each time was different and did not mean less than the last. In other words, you can have multiple loves, but you'll know when one finally and truly meshes with you. Quit focusing on the prize when you're not even in the game. Are you dating? No? Don't worry and instead focus on improving yourself for yourself. You may be surprised what happens when you are seeking to make yourself a better person and a happier person.
alchemy91
Haha sorry this post was not meant to be out up, I'm on my phone and I meant to delete it and I guess I posted it lmao
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