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Do women like overly shy guys?

rillarei
I see what you're saying, I understand it. Can't complain about something that you haven't tried to fix yourself.
rinatanchu
I can tell you I find guys who are shy adorable but they have to really be extremely shy to get any sort of notice from me because I am way more outgoing.
jikokun
Not quite sure how that works, really..
rillarei
lol neither do I.
rinatanchu
Well I can say that one of my friends that I met at a convention, I noticed how shy he was, trying to ask one of my friends if he could take a picture of her. He was so nervous, it was too adorable! We eventually hung out the entire weekend at the con. And yeah, we've been friends since.
jikokun
Kind of a nurturing thing going on there.. but is it the same for finding a bf as it is a friend?
rillarei
Yeah, I'm Jikoshy on this one but it's really cool that he made a friend through his shyness.
rinatanchu
Good question, Jikoshy. I might have tried asking him out but the thought of me being 18 and him being 16 made me not even try. I don't know, I just found it inappropriate because of age of consent laws in California. I could have also thought lowly of myself at the time. He came over to my house one time and saw a picture of me when I was 14 and 100 lbs lighter and said how beautiful I was. Kind of made me back off cuz I the time, it felt as if I wasn't good enough. Idk, I've had (and have) really low self-esteem issues.
jikokun
Be proud of who you are. From what little I know of yoy, and only going by your profile, you seem like a nice, honest person with a good heart. ...and I'm straightforward blunt, so that means something coming from me! :)
yaasshat
Shyness usually stems from a lack of confidence and that goes into so much more than just shyness in life. If you can't talk to people out of fear, how are you going to handle the really important things in life? Everyone has a certain amount of shyness , but when that defines you, there may be an even more important underlying issue.
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