Clingy

I feel the issue behind otaku would be just as the topic states. Since in general most (Not all) anime fans are shy and kinda insecure. So when we find a girl/guy we tend to hold on too strong. Does anyone agree with this trait? The first step to fixing the problem is acknowledging the problem.

Agree 100%. I used to be that way too, but nope not anymore. If I am with a girl and she wants to go somewhere out of state with friends for a week or something. More power to you and more sitting at the pc naked playing diablo or something. YeA! When your married you can do that anyway. Ha!

I was going to say guilty as charge. But i thought about it more and I never acted that way. My problem has been forgiving cheats. I learned my lesson. I don't have a problem with clingy girls I don't mind taking them to the ends of the world as long as they wouldn't get hurt.

I've done it before back in high school. Now I seem to be way more laid back. I dislike texting all the time and pretty much phone use in general that spans throughout the day. Feels like so much time wasted having to come up with a reply every 2 minutes.

It depends on the degree of clingy-ness. When I'm dating, I find that I try to give the guy enough space to do whatever and expect that he'll give me the same respect but still have enough together time to where I won't feel ignored. Kinda upsetting when I would want together time and all my ex would do for hours was play way too many rounds of LoL with no breaks. ~.~;;

I think being clingy, really comes from being desperate. If a Girl or Guy has had few romantic prospects wouldn't it only be natural for them to cling to their first potential love?

I like clingy girls. As long as it isn't like, hanging by my neck 24/7 clingy. She needs to know how to handle "I'm going here alone, or with my guy friends" well.

hmm, i suppose i cood see that :P im not very clingy but i do want to spend lots of time with my guy and never leave his side ever (jk) im not clingy XP but wood rather have a clingy guy then have him throw me to the side XP