What i learned from my relationship

To me i only had 4 relationships all with the same problems. they ended it because: 1. time - all of them ended because they think the relationship is the last thing to do, family first yeah but i mean one just straight up said to me she didnt have time to me but time to meet their friends which are mine too!?! a because of this we never met up at all.... 2. Honest - I told their "friends" they're sluts and weasels. maybe i was too blunt there... but mostly it was the 1st one that makes me think whats the point of having a relationship if they dont have time. just made me angry but mostly worthless. sorry for the post being but anyhelp will really help XD

well people have their own lives and things to do. You can't expect them to be at your side 24/7. Everyone needs some time and space for themselves here and there. As for insulting someone's friends, that's really never a good idea...

What I learned from my relationship - N/A

i was iin a relationship with miku, it lasted a couple min. i didnt understand what she was saying, i only speak bird, goat and english. asshatsune miku more like

After a 6 year relationship i learnt... Life can be a VERY SALTY! But nonetheless i try to stay positive and think of things i can take from this chapter thats over. Life isnt fair, nor are things always set in stone. Feelings change, circumstances change, emotional state changes and people continuously change. If you cant grow with your partner and conquer every step of this ever-changing life.. then its probably not meant to be. You probably have something more to learn, more to mature on, other challenges and goals to achieve.. someone else to meet. Things happen for a reason and i dont think one can always be mad at change (this is heavily circumstantial though). Adapt to it and you can prosper. If not, then learn from it and follow the path meant for you. If you believe you will meet the right one, you will. (positivity attracts people and oppurtunities) if you believe that life is crap, people are crap and there no purpose or other person thats out there for you... then thats your truth as well. (little sad but mindset is the key that opens many doors or keep many locked)

Relationships should be taken seriously but at the same lightly (when needed). Take it seriously when one is down or having problems or when you show to each other sincerity of love and care. Take it 'lightly' when he/she cant be with you because like Neet-one said, we all have lives here. Dont get mad at them if they cannot find that much time for you. They have other priorities. You should have realized that or knew that, when you were in the 'getting to know phase' *sigh. We cannot just be with them or hang around with them 24/7, that is...too exhausting and suffocating. Have your own life outside the relationship no matter how healthy or unhealthy your relationships can be. DO NOT judge his/her friends.Friends have been there for your partner longer than you are. Do not expect good things if you decided not to get along with them especially when you start to drop names on them. As for what I have learned with my past relationships, ---Never expecting anything makes the relationship less rocky. ---Always have respect for each other and be open minded enough of the good and bad possibilities.

Here's the thing, truth, respect and open communication trump all. As for everything else? Live and learn. You may think you know what you need, until the moment someone offers you more than you think you deserve.

I learned some guys just wanna fuck and think that cause you had the sex that is what defines you as a couple. I also learned that I think that is really fucking stupid and I should just tell guys that think that way, "You are stupid and just cause we had sex doesn't make us a couple. Sorry."

That's the thing, some guys have a distorted view of what defines a relationship and think that getting sex with you makes you a thing, just not what you really want, which is a significant and lasting relationship. If you base a relationship on sex then it's like building an igloo in a hot desert, doomed to fail.