Went to a family fun center type of place while in Arizona recently. Was surprised to see such a place was still open. figured all theme parks and anything similar would still be closed.
neeto @neet_one Yeah. Gave the go karts a spin with my dad. Mine was a lot faster than his but didn't want to kill the mood so I stayed around his pace, then let him win in the last lap since I knew he'd care a lot more about winning than I would. Might have been nice to try out the mini golf too but it was getting late.
Salty John @theghoulieleader That does sound pretty fun, you should for sure give the mini golf a chance next time too. I've never rode a go kart before or really played mini golf
neeto @neet_one We used to play mini golf a lot, it can be fun but does take a good while.
This election was the first time I decided to vote. Wasn't a particular bad experience, not sure what the big deal is. Only issue was with my mom who wanted to vote too but needed help with everything, and started getting frustrated and impatient by the end. The staff workers kept thanking me for helping her.
Salty John @theghoulieleader We all know why, attention and boredom. Same goes for you Veruca. Other then being able to express any and every mental thought we have online is also a reason, I used to see this website as a blog post for me to shit post and just spew my internal dialogue.
neeto @neet_one Eh, I've got much better places to go for attention/boredom, places free of narutards with people I can get along pretty well with. The only point of hanging out on a site like this is dating, where as those other places are sausage fests. But when dating feels like a pointless endeavor, hanging out in a place like this subsequently feels pointless. After my last relationship I feel like I should just give up already, like it's not meant to be. I think I'm a shitty person who isn't compatible with a normal person, and the type of person I might be compatible with would find a place like this far too cringy to ever hang out in. I think any attempt at a relationship with the average person would just end up with hurt feelings and bitterness. It might be best for everyone's sake if I just crawled into some hole and died, or at the very least go live in some mountain as to not bother other people.
Salty John @theghoulieleader It's not that I don't relate to how you feel, I do in a way, especially since I've never been on a actual date and only had two "relationships" in my life though they were online and lasted a month I broke it off twice. I just don't view dating or wanting to be with someone as a priority anymore so I just put it out of my head and use this place to talk when I can to the few actual friends on here. At the end of the day live your life how you want
neeto @neet_one Sorry those didn't work out for you Narcy. I've been in a similar boat with a few failed online relationships and little to speak of offline.
It feels like more of a priority when someone is younger because relationships are a game of musical chairs, a lot of us know it but no one likes to admit it. If you don't get yours quick you're screwed latter in life and get left with slim pickings because everyone in your age range will be taken and start forming families and what not. Makes me feel sorry for those people who screw themselves over by focusing on a carrier first thinking they can push back relationships for latter in life, only to find that it's not only not the same thing, but that no one wants them when they're old and gray anyway, so they settle for gold diggers or whatever else they can get and just convince themselves it's fine even if they have nothing in common and are arguing every other day.
I thought if I waited long enough the right person might come along, but it's obvious that's not gonna happen. I've tried making it work with people I didn't have much in common with, but it just doesn't feel right. We can't always live the life we want to live because a lot of things can and do happen which are out of our control. All we can really do is just accept things for what they are and learn to live with it or work around those problems.
Salty John @theghoulieleader I'm one of those people who always put having a career first instead of a relationship and even now I'm still doing the same honestly. I think the more I interact with dating the more I dislike the idea of it and even relationships now. I honestly don't even want to make new friends anymore and just want to stick to my quiet life
It's good you think that way. Finding someone your compatible with is better than just picking someone just because you feel lonely or desperate. Those people in the end will have major problems if things between then get more serious. I think people choose with their emotions more than their brain but then complain when things go sour when they should of seen if they are truly compatible. Its the smart and mature way of doing it.
I read that the same company owns alot of the dating type websites are actively trying to make money using tavtics. They have bots that like you or act like there talking to you but there not real people to convince you to buy their premium service.
I read where one guy had no messages even with the premium service he paid for and then after it ran out/cancelled put of nowhere he got like 30 messages but couldn't see them without paying again. And when he did they were all im fact bots.
neeto @neet_one Yeah that's one of the reasons I never paid for it. That and it just feels wrong anyway, like an act of desperation after being defeated. Besides, even if half were legitimate there's no reason to think I might like them back. I've had plenty of people like me who I had little or no feelings for in return. A lot of guys will just take whatever, but that's not me.
You're right. About both of those things. But I believe she has definitely found "the one". But I'm happy for her. They've been in a relationship for almost three years. It makes me happy every time she comes home from school smiling like a chipmunk. Besides, I've tested the dude a thousand times and on a thousand things and on a scale of angel to douche bag, he's a complete saint. But most importantly, he makes her happy. All I wish is to meet someone who will be that for me. But for now, ill just continue to watch slice of life and write romances. That's what makes me happy. Sorry. I was kind of depressed when I wrote my bio. Thank you for your kindness tho. :)
neeto @neet_one No problem. I'm glad to hear that then. It's nice to hear about people finding real love like that. I guess after seeing so many people take whatever they can get, jumping into relationships with people that aren't right for them, and having it fall apart without learning anything, one starts to loose a lot of faith in people. Here's hooping things work out well for them, sounds like they're one of the few couples out there doing things right. Don't loose faith either, it might not be today or tomorrow but eventually you'll find yours too. Just don't rush it, you might end up regretting it if you do.
Is it weird that I've got 50+ likes on okc and no messages? seems a bit odd to me.
neeto @neet_one Can't say I'm crazy about paying for the service just to find out who they're from.
Salty John @theghoulieleader That's how those sites get you. They bullshit you into thinking people are interested when people literally message you if they're interested at least if it's free to message
neeto @neet_one Yeah I'd think they'd just message me if they really liked me. At best it's probably just a bunch of people who casually like anyone who's remotely interesting, like a book mark or something. Could be there's a few who want someone else to make the first move, but they're probably in the minority here.
Salty John @theghoulieleader True enough, or the site just cycles things around to make it annoying in a minor way for free users.
There's a anime called " I'm standing on a million lives", it's a issekai but main character is really pessmestic.
Went to a family fun center type of place while in Arizona recently. Was surprised to see such a place was still open. figured all theme parks and anything similar would still be closed.
This election was the first time I decided to vote. Wasn't a particular bad experience, not sure what the big deal is. Only issue was with my mom who wanted to vote too but needed help with everything, and started getting frustrated and impatient by the end. The staff workers kept thanking me for helping her.
I don't know why I'm even still here.
It's good you think that way. Finding someone your compatible with is better than just picking someone just because you feel lonely or desperate. Those people in the end will have major problems if things between then get more serious. I think people choose with their emotions more than their brain but then complain when things go sour when they should of seen if they are truly compatible. Its the smart and mature way of doing it.
I read that the same company owns alot of the dating type websites are actively trying to make money using tavtics. They have bots that like you or act like there talking to you but there not real people to convince you to buy their premium service.
I read where one guy had no messages even with the premium service he paid for and then after it ran out/cancelled put of nowhere he got like 30 messages but couldn't see them without paying again. And when he did they were all im fact bots.
You're right. About both of those things. But I believe she has definitely found "the one". But I'm happy for her. They've been in a relationship for almost three years. It makes me happy every time she comes home from school smiling like a chipmunk. Besides, I've tested the dude a thousand times and on a thousand things and on a scale of angel to douche bag, he's a complete saint. But most importantly, he makes her happy. All I wish is to meet someone who will be that for me. But for now, ill just continue to watch slice of life and write romances. That's what makes me happy. Sorry. I was kind of depressed when I wrote my bio. Thank you for your kindness tho. :)
Is it weird that I've got 50+ likes on okc and no messages? seems a bit odd to me.
Fate/Zero I think
Depends on the anime, it can be anything from 2 eps up to 12-13