Virgin talk.

Never had sex although I've had dozens of oppurtunities to have it. Just never happened for me and thats ok. I'm not exactly saving myself for anyone "special" but sex does mean something to me at least. It giving apiece of you to someone else. I'm not gonna lose my virginity because everyone else my age is doing it but I won't try to save it for marriage. When the time comes, it'll happen and it'll be with someone I feel is worthy of me.

First, I don't plan on getting married until I'm so old dating is no longer an option, so waiting until then wouldn't be logical. Sex is strange, isn't it? It's so valuable it should be saved for only one special person, or so valueless that people respond to 14 word solicitations on Craigslist. I am waiting for someone special, but I don't think people should be tied down. So long as they're safe, I don't think sex is particularly sacred, but there is definitely a huge difference between fucking and making love, a difference which you people seem to be stumbling with XD. Mating rituals are a strange social construct, but when it comes down to it, it's about enjoying yourself. Just be safe ;)

Personally, I don't think I'd be very good at nor enjoy casual sex. For me, some sort of emotional relationship would need to exist before sex. Otherwise I feel it doesn't reflect well on my character, something I value highly. I'm not going to say that it's sinful or anything, I just don't want to be part of the club.