Virgin talk.

Or you can just wait for the right girl. When I lost my virginity, I cried cause it didn't feel right. I felt used. I regretted it back then. Today I can say I don't regret it because it's in the past and there's nothing I can do to change it. Also, I've had sex with another person besides that experience, and I actually cared about this guy and it was amazing. It's more than just the pleasure of intercourse. Just being held by someone you really care about and knowing they are choosing you to share themselves with is an amazing feeling. I refuse to have meaningless sex. I don't want to show my body to someone I do not deeply care about.

I'm still a virgin. As far as "experiences" I have hugs and less than a handful of dates. Most girls don't interest me, and a few I mistakenly got crushes on wanted me because I would make a "nice" boyfriend or wanted to get into my pants. I left a few because they nagged me about sex and other relationships pretty much crumbled once they realized I wasn't a "nice" guy. Having sex with them would've gone against my beliefs, personal beliefs, and I wouldn't be able to handle having sex outside of a solid relationship. My emotions aren't strong enough to withstand a severing of such a relationship. Summary: no experience, narrow interest. One reason I'm always single.

I'm still a virgin. I've never dated anyone and have never really had much attention from girls, but I've still thought about my status. I'm not desperate to lose my virginity really. I'm waiting for the right, special person for me to lose it. I need to learn how to overcome my shyness and find a nice relationship before anything.

@kidpool Marriage in the States is like that because it is very beneficial to get married as far as it goes with financial issues. There are over 200 tax benefits when it comes to getting married and also, if you have a kid out of wedlock, it is hard to support the child if the parents aren't married. it is even more difficult if the parents divorce but that is a different story. I don't know how it is in any European countries but if you to do things like adopt a kid, pay for house or a car, be considered a "spouse" or "partner" in a legal recognition, then yes, marriage is something that you want if you have someone you want to get married to. It isn't just a piece of paper. It is an official government document with more power to t. @RInka_Chan93 All the shout-outs to Rika-chan. That is also how I feel and I agree. Sex is when you are straight up vulnerable to each other so it takes a lot of trust to have sex with someone. If you have sex with someone who is to you "just a friend" or is a stranger, they you must have a lot of trust in them. Nothing wrong with that at all unless you feel something is wrong? Some people are different. And remember, there are many ways to enjoy pleasure with a partner then just straight up intercourse (vaginal or anal). Foreplay is fun too! Overall, it is your decision and I wish everyone the best. @Kane I am sure you won't always be single! Keeping fighting! @Jmac55 You too! keep going! And there is nothing wrong with being shy. But if you want to change that, I wish you the best!

I believe it's best to wait until you're married. To the person receiving it, it's the ultimate gift you are giving. It's the most cherished thing you can have, no matter what society tells you.

Honestly, the whole concept of sexual intercourse is kinda weird to me. If anything it should only be done with someone you truly love, marriage or not. People change. Divorce can happen. Just wait for the person you truly love.

ohhhh gOd speaking to my heart i feel yah i had someone i cared for but didnt love or wasnt my husband he wanted sex didnt pressure me but i didnt but yeh i say wait THAT MEANS YOU MALES TOO NOW

I find it interesting, this whole social construct is so fickle. I too am a virgin and I have given this subject tons of thought. Despite my lack of experience with sex, I feel that it is something that should be valued. It's the ultimate expression of how you feel for the other person. I have signed up for other dating sites and through my experiences, i have learned to try and see things from the female's point of view. The conclusion i've reached is that many females aren't anymore clear on how this is supposed to work than guys. And that's the frustrating part of this. Because both sides aren't sure both parties are terrified of ruining something that they believe is fragile. And because of this, the relationship goes nowhere. My advise to everyone on this site, male and female alike should do plenty of self-reflection and fantasizing. The end result should be for all of you to really know what you're looking for. There will be things you'll have to compromise on and accept about people, but not knowing at all and expecting everything to magically workout without your doing anything will surely end in failure. That's why random dating has always mistified me. It just seems like a lot of wasted time and money for very little. I'm going to try and cut this rant short now, but if anyones has something they would like to contribute, i would enjoy some debating. - my spelling is probably horrible, sorry.