Why do some lads say everyone is beautiful, but then calls girls fat when they see them?

Coddle not lest ye be coddled. The truth is the truth, but having tact is priceless. But, everyone is beautiful, just not to everyone. Should I be offended if someone thinks me to be unattractive? I think not. I don't find every female attractive either. Should I find myself attractive? Yup. Fuck the rest. The one who matters to me will think I matter to them. If I spend a lifetime only to find one who thinks I am, so be it. I must love myself first and foremost. I'm not trying to sound conceited when I say that, but all to often we forget to look in the mirror and cherish the only person who truly is with us from conception until death. As for those who wish to stroke their ego through viewing others as lesser while vomiting out shit when they speak, I don't like plastic. Humans are selfish creatures.

@Jean Rivera The correct spelling is "hypocrites". ^^ And Jean Rivera is right they are hypocrites. Why? Nobody wants to sound mean or they don't wanna think they are when they, in reality are in fact, mean and judgmental. OT: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It's subjective unless the standards of beauty is the golden ratio. If nobody else thinks you're beautiful you have the obligation to think you are and live with the fact that everyone else is stupid to think you're not. In that case everyone would be beautiful cause atleast one person on earth thinks you are beautiful and that one person would either be you or your mom. Also have to agree with SarcasticDesire. lordragna37 that's just plain mean.

Our brains are kinda Wired to say What makes us most appealing to others so we say this to look Better to others but thats Just the instinct we dont always act on it

Personally im not like that people can say oh that girl is fat but its not like they can help it...and even so its not like they cant change it so why bother them? If you were the same you wouldnt approve of peeps calling you that... i mean girl with a little weight on them at least have something to look at am i right ¬ ¬

There are many answers but I'm going for this one. There are plenty of meanings about the word "beautiful", as an architecture student, I see beauty in function, truth and usefulness (Platon) but people often see beauty in symmetry, in order, in pleasure (Aristoteles) so I must say beauty (according to what @jineko said and agreeing with her) is in the eye and in the perception. The standards of beauty are based on armony and stability. Those traits that are grotesque to the eyes seem more plausible in biology than the other traits considered breathtaking but that's not true. There is when "function" take its role. So technically everything in this world is beautiful as long as it's useful or works properly, everything else is just made up in order to make people fall under the commercial business. If you put the normal definition of beauty (armony, pleasure) and the desire to be accepted is obvious that the proper manner is to accept others regarding what they look like, that means creating a masquerade to socialize when in reality they can't help criticize those things that aren't perfect to the common eye. That's a normal behavior and is no surprise most people are under that description considering they also do not get their very own flaws. That's just my opinion.

They are hypocrites it would seem. Pretty simple. If someone does that, they're probably not trustworthy. I know many people like that who claim they're so darn liberal in their views of beauty, yet they do exactly what you have said. Best not to mix with those types.

I see that many people are calling these guys hypocrites and in a way I think they're right,but you can't blame people for not liking certain body types, i think both men and women do this,I think it's human nature that some people pretend to be nice and it's hard to find someone sincere,people tend to see other people flaws before they see their own flaws

^^ No you can't blame them, but you can call them out on it when they project themselves to be some enlightened guru. I do believe as well that it may be human nature to feign kindness (who hasn't done this at work? ;D) but if you know you are only doing just that you should admit to it so as to not lead people on.

Maybe a lot of people mistake kindness for attraction, me personally I don't really mind fat girls( I don't like saying it this way) i think they can be pretty, I was a fat kid and it took me almost a year to lose weight so I know the struggle haha