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yunokyum
I dont care. I play online.... If I reach any financial stability... that could be the time to sleep together, kiss, touch, hug... You know... deaf? who cares? wellchair? who cares. altism? As long dont betray. But I did not reached stability. Most otaku don't. I will keep online
gtorocks
It really depend on what type of disability of your partner. Many people does care about their partner having a disability usually physically and some mental illness. If your bf/gf prevent you to do something, most likely you will blame your partner. Another I want to bring out is people who cannot walk will have a huge burden to their partner. You had to help them take shower, carry their wheelchair, going to bathroom at night you need to be on standby. A lot of other time you will feel exhausted and you cannot hold on your stress. I recommend you all to watch this japanese show is really amazing and based on true story. It is called "1 Litre Tears."
sev
This is a good question. I'm disabled myself (legally blind so I can't drive, plus learning disabilities like dyscalculia and ADHD because I was born several months premature) and I've found that it can be very hard to get or keep a girlfriend. Especially with a local girl that lives in your area. They don't really like the idea of having a guy that can't come pick them up or who can't really live alone. Of course it doesn't help that I live in the deep south and that many girls here want a guy with a giant pickup truck that can take them mudding and hunting haha. That's not saying I haven't had girlfriends, I've actually had quite a few (though I have been single for most of the last two years). It's just that most of them never got very serious and the longest one I've had was only for a year and a half. I'm currently working on the financial thing though since I've started to overcome my formally crippling depression. I may not ever be able to drive (my vision is only going to degrade further as I age) and be 100% independent but I can at least start making some money. Hopefully that will help and that I'll eventually find someone is more understanding of my situation. Until then the struggle continues I guess. lol
sev
Eck accidental double post.
foxxygirl01
I hate people(a lot) because they think they can categorize me just cus I have a rare condition. The doctors said I could never walk again, but haha look at me now. So what if im a little off-balance that hasn't stop me now from fulfilling my dream.
jas
I was on a dating site that had a question that posited: "Would the world be better if all the stupid people were dead". It seemed like a pretty messed up question. I mean some of my high school classmates had learning disabilities. Sure, one of my friends couldn't do algebra.. but, he knew EVERYTHING about the Titanic. So, yeah. Categorizing and shaming people for the challenges in their life is awful. I wouldn't judge anyone by their disability: just by what they accomplished.
neetone
largely depends on the disability. some are easier to deal with than others. I knew someone who was very self conscious about their autism, but I honestly couldn't notice anything wrong with them. she also claimed to be extremely clumsy and fell a lot, but I wouldn't mind being there to catch them. As long as you really care for that person, helping them shouldn't be a problem. In fact, I think knowing someone counts on you for support can be very fulfilling. The only problem is when they're unaware of their problem or refuse to accept they even have one when they clearly do. For example; I have a family member who very poor hearing and it makes talking to them a real chore. I say one thing and they hear another and we end up having completely different conversations. They also seem to get into trouble a lot for agreeing to things they shouldn't, because they always just nod and agree when they can't hear people. Half the time they can't hear me unless I practically yell, and I don't much care for yelling.
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