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Was I in the wrong for this?

suichi
Yesterday I was tending to my best friend who was having a really tough time losing his mom to lung cancer. Even I was in pain knowing she considered me one of her own children and took care of me every time I came to visit. Before his mom passed away I told her I would skype with her tonight in hope that his mom would soon recover but that didn't happen. After finally returning home I wasn't feeling so great and just didn't feel like being on skype with my girlfriend. I was talking to her until my phone died while I was in the hospital with my best friend's family. I told her I was sorry but in the state I'm in, I do not feel like skyping tonight. She threw a fit and told me well then I guess you don't feel like talking to me at all tonight, have a good evening. Again I apologized again and said I lost someone I cared about today, I can't help it that I don't feel like doing anything. She then realized what she did and apologized but after that reaction I just didn't feel like speaking at all and wanted to sleep. I told her that and she finally understood. Now I'm waking up to see her make a facebook status all like I can't seem to sleep, too much on my brain and it is making me restless. I can't help but feel like maybe that is my fault but was I really wrong to feel like that after a loss of someone that was like family to me?
wingeater
No man you're not in the wrong. You were going through a tough time and instead of supporting you and giving you the time you needed, your gf blew up and gave you more to worry about. But she's probably upset cause she thought that you would seek her for support. As for the FB status, she's probably just about what you're going through and if not, then she's just being selfish.
alexislynn
Your not in the wrong, I can tell you that much. Maybe she was just worried about how you were holding up emotionally. I'm sorry for your loss, btw.
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