Nice guys finish last

Ok? Want to complain a bit more? Women love that. Nice guys don't finish last, you might though. Your so called "relationships" were when you were a kid. If it seems like you're meeting only certain types of women, is it thier fault? There's a common link here somewhere... I mean, what makes you so nice and others in relationships not? Do you think you just deserve what you want or that they owe you special attention?

No I dont deserve special attention. Could be their fault, I have no idea. I try to do right by people.. putting them before myself at all times... And the only thing I expect from people is the same respect I show them.

If they can't respect you, don't associate with them. It's that simple. A nice guy is not a doormat. Just be kind without expectation. Also, how could it be thier fault? You choose who you want to be around, you're an adult after all. YOU are the common denominator. I wonder how many young women you pass up because they don't meet your standards?

Because relationships are not one sided.. I'm sure I, like all of us have had our share of being an ass to someone.. My standards are typically around the area of friendship first.. after that.. some sort of attraction, whether it be personality or looks..And if I have passed them up..its usually because they never told me the way they felt..

I believe the saying is actually very true and that it's naive to think otherwise. Being nice is a great way to get taken advantage of, used, abused, and generally walked all over. Not so nice guys get what they want in life because they take what they want, even if that means using underhanded tactics and a bit of force to get it. We live in a very competition oriented society and you're never going to get ahead if you let others pass you up. Be it women, money, or power very few get ahead in life while playing by the rules and being nice to other people. That's the cold hard truth of the world. We don't live in some magical fantasy land where handing out flowers and hugs gets you happy cuddly rainbow friends in return. It sucks I know and I wish that wasn't the case but that's life. Also, as some have pointed out yes complaining about life wont change anything for the better. You really don't wanna be someone who relays on the pity of others. When it comes to matters of romance That sort of thing can be very off putting. Women respond well to confidence, not self pity and bitterness.

Cry me a river, bro... http://www.quickmeme.com/img/5d/5d839ed0a680b4d1ce97c940d3dfc7df5dbf560db4f5bedec1f6a76d3b21ce6e.jpg

It's no use lying, yes, nice guys definitely finish last. That being said, most nice guys lack CONFIDENCE, the single most attractive feature to a girl. If you balance your confidence with your kind demeanor you'll finish first. This is also why you usually see assholes swimming in a sea of girls, because they have CONFIDENCE.

I'm usually pretty cheerful and happy go lucky, and explode with confidence.. its when things go south so often that I lose all that.. Its unfortunate.. but yeah

I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR 26 YEARS 28 IN KOREA BECAUSE OF HOW KOREAN AGE WORKS I AM NOT NECESSARILY NICE and I have an abrasive personality, or so I'm told. Someone also told me I am narcissistic. but I mean when I finish washing my face every morning, and I see myself, I just have to draw lips on the mirror and kiss myself. It is not just nice guys who finish last. It is also the gods among men, like myself. I figured it out, though. It is because they cannot hope to ever compare themselves to someone of my caliber. They feel unworthy of my greatness. Maybe you, with your stylish hats and thoughtful gifts of sweets and flora, are someone like I. Of course, not as outstanding as me, but close. Like a demigod or some shit. Probably not. I don't know. I'm just saying stupid shit because I'm so terribly alone and this is the only way I can entertain myself until True Detective season 2 finishes downloading.

Oh my lol.. I mean.. I'm not above being optimistic in believing that theres someone out there for everyone..But I'd be lying if I said I'm not sick of trying to find my someone.. Hell.. I'd even take someone close enough by this point!