Why are you single?

I'm mainly single because I'm very reserved and enjoy being myself i'm not into the party scene or weed culture heck I don't even drink but besides all (I do not judge those who do its just my preference) that i'm very into intellectual people that focus more on reality more than finding an escape in life I like being in the moment more than in my head thinking 24/7 but from what I noticed most people are into the above things I stated so it really narrows down my options when it comes to dating even friendships that's all there is to it really.

I have had a few relationships but never seem to hold them. Either I get busy or they get busy. Also, I am an introvert IRL, but I tend to open up to people who I know. I just wish that I can get into an actual relationship one day.