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Is it bad for a girl to be the robot type of person?

pocketto
MariaHaise Good for you for putting yourself out there to meet new people and make new friends. It's unfortunate that you can't seem to join in the conversations, but from what you explained there is nothing wrong with you. I now understand what you mean by robot. I think am the same. I mostly just sit and listen to my friends' conversations as I have nothing to add since we have different life and experiences. They are all married and also not fans of anime. But I still enjoy their company. I didn't realize how much trouble it gave you since it has never bothered me before, I am happy just sitting and listening. I never thought I was cold since I have been able to keep a bunch of friends. I thought of it just being introverted. I guess I was lucky to always find a good friend wherever I moved. But hopefully you can find a group of friends that will accept all your quirks and eccentricities. As for proportions, are you talking about the Golden Ratio?
mariahaise
Aural section and gold number, it is the same as Golden Ratio. I think is no problem to be introverted if they actually add you to their meetings and such. The problem is that even when I enjoy their company, they seem to not add me inside of their group yet. That's why is a problem for me.
darkschneider
@maria - It is normal, you just have that type of demeanor which can change over time some. It can indeed be difficult as people have feelings even if they do not wear them like a badge and people may not take notice as easily to them. Do not dwell on it too much as it may make you feel down needlessly. The best thing to do for now is focus on learning, enriching yourself gaining experiences. Do the things you are interested in and join clubs related to those things to socialize at first. You will be able to relate to others more and more if you keep the right attitude and stay engaged in pursuing your goals. If you feel you are getting too lost in the crowd or unnoticed smile, it makes people wonder. ;)
mariahaise
Nice advice, but I have no time for clubs and I actually don't mind being alone sometimes, I just was wondering if my personality was a bother to others so that's why they don't try to approach me or they don't know how to. Still I appreciate it.
crimsonsun2xseries
It's attractive; I'd prefer that to a loud-mouthed person. It adds to the mystery of the person, character is good.
valvatorezloc
it's only love if its the real you.
hynsan
Yeah it's hard for people that just aren't or don't like to be social. Or any type of person I always have this expressionless kind of face, but it's not because I'm mad or annoyed, it's just that I dint and I don't really spend time with other people. Besides I'm more of a listener, back in HS my friends came to talk to me about there problems. I don't like it when people as sim that I'm in a bad mood just cuz of my usual facial expressions But you would always see me laugh, cry, and have all sorts of expressions when I watch anime and read manga
mariahaise
^ I understaaand. I mean, when I go out I have a serious expression on my face, though somehow I look "nice" enough for strangers to approach me. I don't use to stablish good talks with other people unless they are really close or I find that they have a genuine interest in me as a friend. Otherwise, I won't open up but I'd still won't be afraid of interacting with you.
bloodcursedchild
@Maria, Robot? Like expressionaless and mono-tone type of girl?
mariahaise
@blood mostly expressionless yeah, I'm like that with most people.
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