If I could choose my ultimate partner

I like Korea, but I know much less about it than China and Japan. I'd have to do my homework, but I am in love with the cheongsam my friend - I've been to China in 2009 and I loved it.

1. Personality that compliments mine as I do hers' 2. Can't emphasize this enough I love tomboys with short hair 3. A very knowlegable person who knows a thing or two 4. Shares interests I like(again in vice versa) 5. Off course be an anime fan like me 6. Older than me 7. Not everyone will agree with me but I'd like an alpha female: "A girl who takes charge" "A girl just as tough as any of the boys" "A girl who doesn't care what people think of her"

I used to think I knew the answer to that question. Not anymore. If anything, it'd have to be someone I'll get along with and who won't take advantage of me being stupid.