Paradise Lost...

Sorry man, some people in the world just end up doing about faces like that. Once you live with someone you see them in full and you know then whether or not they're right for you. But sometimes people have this side that you don't normally see, one that comes out after certain events. You need to let her go entirely, get rid of all that reminds you of her and move on.

This sounds really mixed up. I can understand the bird locked in a cage feel, I had that with my ex not wanting me to hang with my guy friends or much else. But being overly worried about the future and not thinking about it just restricts how much can be done and the emotional levels involved (future happiness mainly). Plans are important to work toward, and kids make the world continue. Things do happen, but for the most part there is a right and wrong. I can understand wanting space and to be myself still while dating and not tied down 100% but this sounds nuts to me. I'm super indecisive yet I sound like nothing in that sense related to what you've said on your ex.

People change, and sometimes revert back to wanting to be with you. My ex is sorta kinda doing that right now, we'll see where that goes or if it will. Not putting all my faith in it at this point. But in this case....straight up nuts, would not recommend taking her back.

Yeah, they suck. Just makes you realize the person isn't right for ya and it's time to move on. I've had some of those too. You can chat with me on FB if ya need to or in message. ^^