What is it like being a boy on MO?

idk there was a post called opposite of it so y not? lmao Personally, im just chilling.-Website is on the background if i get notified & things i keep posting stuff.

Im gonna assume this is some kinda joke on the other thread, but I'm to bored to care so... It's just like the rest of my life. Sitting around watching the rest of the world enjoy living as I die more and more every day.

Tiring. I'm getting along in my age and am just looking to make a solid and meaningful connection with someone, but to a lot of girls here it makes no difference. I get a lot of inquiries about if I'd like to be their daddy, or just generally the conversation goes down a sexual road. I don't really mind either way, but I at least want to BE in a relationship beforehand. Not to mention the absolute gall underage women have to fucking even try. If you're underage and attempt to make a connection that is anything other than plutonic friendship, it comes off immediately as incredibly disrespectful, and I will file you down as such. On the flip side, I've met a lot of great people here that will definitely become life-long friends.

It has its moments. Mostly its just spamming the boards and rarely talking to anyone who messages. A couple weird messages from people like a girl asking if she could be my slave to random nudes. I assume its all just spam, but ill still occasionally reply. Usually with the nice guy approach. It usually either scares them off or shows them im not interested so they stop messaging me. Other then that tho the people who talk on the forums are cool and usually good for a laugh or two. Sometimes even for a real conversation and some advice coming from both sides. There are a lot of trolls with a couple real people sprinkled in. At least from my point of view ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Everyone see's the world differently, so to others it could just be a gigantic waste of time.... well it kinda is tbh

Lonely. Especially, because I don’t talk to anyone long term. •_____• It usually goes like this. *talks to someone briefly*(conversation ends)*never hear from them again or for at least until 1-3 months has passed(cycle repeats) That doesn’t just apply to MO. Everybody eventually forgets about me altogether and all communication dies. Guess I’m a forgettable/unlikeable person or something. People keep telling me they have “online friends” and that they’re still magically”friends to this day”, because they just are. I’ve never experienced this firsthand or seen any proof that it could happen to me. I’ve seen couples/friends that have had successful online relationships, but I’m not really expecting it to happen to me. It kind of seems like a fairy tale or some sort of far fetched thing. I’ve tried and I guess I’m too awkward and shy or something. I’ve tried everything and nobody seems to want continue to be my “online”friend or date me long term. I’ve been trying to have a successful online for 6 fckng years, and every time it never works out. It never lasts especially dating. Dating has been a total flop for me. I have people might say hi to, but I don’t know if they’d even respond back. I’ve tried to get in touch with people in the past that I “met online” MULTIPLE PEOPLE MULTIPLE TIMES, and EVERY single time they’re like “sorry I don’t remember you” or They never message me back or they’re like “hi” and then they ignore me and talk to someone else. Every time I talk to someone I’ve talked to in the past, they just seemed disinterested. The problem is that I’m not an interesting person. I’m boring and awkward and shy. I’m not unique. I’m not special. I’m just a 5’2 unattractive white guy from Ohio. I guess people pick up on that and avoid me. Never seen the point of me having social media consider I never have anything to post and nobody wants to talk to me. I guess people want the exciting extroverted social butterfly that has neat tricks and is interesting, and is always doing something fun, and always knows what to say. But that’s never been me. There are times where in conversations where I’ve run out of things to talk about, and so it’s just silence, and it gets awkward. I’ve never had more than 3 close circled irl friends in my entire life. I’ve never even really “made friends” most of my friends in school were friends of friends. The first friend I ever had made me their friend but I’ve NEVER in my life initiation a relationship that lasted. Beginning to think I’ll never make friends out of my own merit and be able keep them. I’ll probably end up dying friendless and alone if I’m honest, and I doubt anybody would want to date me. Especially, because of all my baggage and bs. Then there’s the fact that I’m just in general unattractive. I’ve been on MO less due to lack of motivation due to me usually spending hours browsing, and reading posts hoping someone will talk to me, but I inevitably end up reading more than interacting with people, and so I end up leaving the website feeling defeated night after night. Like something was suppose to happen, but didn’t.

It most likely varies a lot. I'm usually just floating around. Been here since 2011, no romance but good friends. Romance is general is pretty bad for me anyway. I do need to make the effort myself usually for seeking romance or even friendship. In the last few years I've grown more cynical in life and do not put in much effort unless someone shows interest in me. Regardless I expect most correspondence to last less than a month. Other then that I just post stuff and chat which has good times.