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Fell in love for the first time. Help?!?

loving_yuu
In a relationship is it good to be clear with your emotions? My gf and I have been dating for 4 months, I'm very affectionite (I have the deposition of a Golden Retriver lol) while she isn't comfortable with public affection. I don't know if she actully likes me and I don't know how to find out. We haven't kissed or even held hands. Am I expecting too much of her? We were friends before we became a couple. Am I rushing things? I have absoultely NO experience and feel like a noob. ANY HELP IS APRECIATED! <3
proudbeast
Go with the flow and don't force it. Otherwise, it'll be awkward on both ends. Just pick when the moment is right and don't spam the affection otherwise it becomes meaningless. Chances are she is either thinking about you too or she has her mind set on where you fit as a puzzle piece in her life.
loving_yuu
Hmm, okay. Thank you.
alice_kills
I think you should rethink and talk to your gf. Be patient and listen. Talk things through but don't be forceful. If it ends up being that she went in to the relationship not wanting to lose a friend, you may have to reconsider a lot of things in your relationship,but otherwise don't lose your friend over something like a "not sure" relationship. I had a friend who went into a relationship with a girl because she didn't want to lose her friend by saying no...the outcome ended up worse then a rejection. I guess all I can really say is trust your feelings.
loving_yuu
That is what I was thinking it was. If she doesn't feel the same, than I am perfectly happy being friends. I value our friendship more than our relationship. But first things first I will talk with her. Thank you.
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