why is it so hard finding girls on here?

Isn't it like that on every dating site? Course, not being a guy, I wouldn't really know the struggle...

Theres alot of girls, most of them stay in the private messaging/wall posts. You have to find ehm yourself buddy ;D

Trying to date over the internet isn't the most for sure way to get at women anyway though. And @kichigai913 so true, so true. But by all means, don't stop trying. Try and make all the connections you can. It doesn't hurt your chances.

@djlee6 the struggle is real.

Dj, it's because when you try and talk to a girl here, males have to fight against 50 lurker creepers who simple message girls to get in their pants/be rude or ignorant, or just want anybody and anything that's new to the site. If you're looking for somebody, it's best to look for an active poster. At least then, you have a baseline for who they somewhat are.

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