Is it just me

Is it just me or am i not attractive. i have been thinking lately that there is no reason apart from looks that makes women reject me or dump me

as i said before i am seeking the truth i don't care if i get compliments or not i didn't say i wanted them nor did i ask for them

^ True. Le sigh. It depresses me that the Male members of this site is making us all look bad by always starting up topics like these. I mean I understand not being attractive and whatnot, but starting up topics like these comes off as wanting Female attention, when in reality you'll get the exact opposite. I'm not trying to be a douche or anything, but it maybe best that the topic starter uses the search engine to find women in his area. @ Topic starter: Don't get your hopes up on this site, or any online dating site for that matter. The probability of finding a significant other is relatively low. Also while it's ok to get depressed when things aren't going your way, bare in mind that you will not obtain the attention you seek by feeling bad for yourself.

Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. I find people attractive that my friends do not and vise versa. Anyways, there is only so much you can do to make yourself more attractive to a larger group of people: have good hygiene and be optimistic. People tend to not like to be around pessimistic people as it then brings them down. You can have your moments of down-ness, but don't dwell in it all the time. I speak from experience, it just drives others away. Anyways~ as to what Tiger said, don't let that diminish your hopes. I found my boyfriend on this website and couldn't be happier :)

This may come off as harsh, but it's my honest opinion for anyone who thinks that physical looks are the only reason they can't find someone to be in a relationship with. If you have that many people rejecting you, then perhaps you should look at the common denominator. In a world with so many different people who have so many different views of attractiveness, I don't believe that your physical looks are the only reason. Maybe you should do a honest self-reflection and really think objectively why people generally find you unattractive.