Lunawyn

Force yourself to do things that you are normally uncomfortable to do. You can take little steps each day.. practice forming conversations in your mind or talk to yourself in the mirror lol (eye contact, smiling, try to appear approachable).. and then go out and talk to random people who are by themselves (can start out with small talk and short ones.. and then move on to longer conversations as you get more comfortable). Eventually it will get easier for you as you practice and it won't be as scary anymore. I know it's scary, but what's the worst that can happen if you try? If it goes bad, you can just leave and never see them again. It will help build your self esteem too because at least you know you are trying and when you actually do it :D you will feel like you're in control and have conquered some of your fear, good job! This is what I personally did, and I can be more outgoing and do small talk with people more easily now (used to be Extremely quiet and shy).. it helped me make friends by not being scared of taking the initiative. Just a suggestion!

I'm sorry to say but.. it sort of is for me even though I don't want to be racist :x I just am naturally more attracted to certain races over others. Not to mention how strict asian families can be as well.. they would go crazy if I were to date certain races, and I don't really want to deal with all the disapproval. But I guess if I were to fall for someone and love them enough, I can probably rebel in the end haha. It would be hard though.