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Haku @haku hello hello

永遠のルナ一 @eternallunar1 So how's things going? I think I remember seeing you around the art thread last october or somewhere around that time frame?

Haku @haku yeah i get on for awhile talk to people then they stop talking to me and i just leave and repeat as i need to. it was really cool i like seeing what other people can do and achieve when they practice. and im hanging in there i suppose what about you?

永遠のルナ一 @eternallunar1 I feel that. I've been on and off this site. No one really talks to me much on here and I always feel like I have to be the one to say anything. Even the friends I have aside from 2 of them, they're all silent and never say how are things going. I do understand it depends on the individual since some people are just like that, or there are circumstances like being busy or whatever but I don't personally see why it's difficult to say hi once in awhile? I also, don't trust people easily either so it's why I don't accept random requests anymore like I used to. But yeah, as for me, I'm pretty much the same as well. I've been busy managing my time busy by studying Japanese, playing games, catching up on anime and still sketching pretty often.

Haku @haku I relate the the first few sentences more then you know. I know i am not that fun to talk to but i rather have honesty then just stop getting messages. just tell me why you dont want to talk idc if it's just because im boring. honestly it happens so much i honestly don't know if i know how to hold a conversation online anymore. i wish i was motivated to do things like that. it takes to much energy for me to wake up on the weekend and just play video games anymore. i started learning Japanese i just cant remember anything. is that doodle thread dead i havent seen it on my page at all?

永遠のルナ一 @eternallunar1 Why is it that you think you're boring? Do you feel like you can't think of anything to talk about? Or does the topics you talk about seem uninteresting to the other person? As for motivation, anyone can be motivated you just have to find out why it is you're not motivated. There are countless books on various subjects and resources to help you learn whatever skill you want. You just have to be interested in whatever it is you want to do. And yeah, I have no idea about the doodle thread I don't go on the forums anymore so I honestly wouldn't know.

Haku @haku yeah i cant think of anything ever to talk about and when i do the other person just talks to me for 3 messages and i only get "yeah" "true" and stuff like that and it just ends. Or they just stop talking to me. i have asked before if i am just boring and they always say no but then they just dont write anymore. I'm not forcing anyone to talk to me if they want to talk they will try too. I mean i would be totally ok if they even told me straight out hey this is boring lets talk about this. That doesnt bother i just want someone to talk to me. I havent gotten any notifications from the thread so it may be dead idk.

永遠のルナ一 @eternallunar1 Yeah, I gotcha. What I usually do is ask questions or think about what it is the other person might be interested in and hope a conversation flows and usually it goes pretty well for me often times there is a silence because I don't know if it is the other person cannot relate to what I'm talking about since I tend to be pretty TD;lr whenever I write. My close friends say I'm not overdoing it, but part of me is unsure if that is the case. Either way, just focus on yourself. And if you're worried about whether you're boring. Try expanding your boundaries and explore different topics you find interesting. History, culture, music, art, food, books, movies list goes on. You can form a conversation about lots of things. Whether or not the other person seems interesting to you is another matter or vice versa. Sometimes friendships click oftentimes they just don't and honestly you just have to accept it and move on. That's what I learned.

Haku @haku it would be just nice if one stuck i guess

Haku @haku Yo

fallenbeautyahri @fallenbeautyaries ;) how are you?

Haku @haku i am............ alive i suppose and you?

fallenbeautyahri @fallenbeautyaries Dead xp

Haku @haku Can relate. Shall we die together?

Haku @haku Have to go clean my church and dont feel like doing it

jesper0 @jesper0 dont temp jezus. gods work should be somthing your proud of :P

Haku @haku It should be actually all funny aside your right but I have done the entire church about 9 times over the past 3 months and it really is getting tiring

jesper0 @jesper0 i dont do religion so i cant realy give advice but if you dont like it quit. or get a helping hand atleast.

Haku @haku There are about another 8 people but they aren't to reliable. I guess I shouldnt complain this is probably the only thing in life I cant mess up

jesper0 @jesper0 getting out to clean with those 8 people might also be a time where you can have talk with them even if you dont want to.

jesper0 @jesper0 I think having more social interactions are necesary to get good at talking with people.

Haku @haku Well the idea is that we have a one week rotation. So I would only work with 1 person once a month but people dont do it all the time. Usually I am alone. I cant hold conversations anyways. Wouldnt do any good

jesper0 @jesper0 then you need to come upfront and tell them i wont do this anymore if you keep giving me all the work. and tell them that they have to keep to the rules.

Haku @haku Wish I had it in me

jesper0 @jesper0 true

Haku @haku What you doing

jesper0 @jesper0 playing minecraft at 3 am in the morning.

Haku @haku Sweetness that sounds like fun I haven't played in a long time

Bish Lasagna @hakutaku I hear his problem too!

frankie @hiretsunaotaku Hmm...I'll have to interact with him more to find out

frankie @hiretsunaotaku Gimme about a month or so

Bish Lasagna @hakutaku I’m interacting with him to find out XD,but I think his problem is that he hasn’t found the right group of people to have real conversations with (also he is shy)..