Why is there never anyone on :(

Problem is, rarely does anyone ever even bother to reply to their friend requests even in the off chance they do log in every once in a blue moon. You can't message someone without friending them, and I get the reason why. Unfortunately forum traffic is rather inconsistent and can go hours (or days) between replies.

well i joined this site acting like it was a dating site and nothing else so i never really got involved, but i just started getting into the forums and stuff, though i don't pay attention to activity, i assume most people get on here acting its a dating site as well and like all dating sites they eventually get bored if they cant find a date and give up, or its just due to people being busy or simply not keeping up with all the posts, forums, requests and messages they get so i wouldn't worry about it id just wait a day or two for a reply.