dating apps

@blissfulforce1818 it is probably because they use it similarly to a business account to keep the focus on their hard work rather than use it to find dates (nothing wrong with that mind you).

I’ve found it hard finding girls who are interested in anime. I honestly can’t wait for the next anime convention to appear, hopefully will meet new people there.

Online dating apps are horrible, 90% of the people turn on a fake persona when online vs irl. Be bold irl, it's way more funnier to be flirty face to face than over net ;)

OkCupid used to be good if you were queer. Met my badass girlfriend there :o It has significantly gotten worse over the years though. Way too tedious to get a date without have to subscribe but nevertheless do give it a go if you're queer. You're going to have to put in some frfr effort though. Playing the weird matching game they have and messaging people first are some musts. Oh and be hella honest with yourself on your profile, it really will help you match with people who have the same interests as you and save you time. Also you should try to wear some odd colors/accessory in your self shot. The like hider system doesn't do that greet of a job of hiding who liked your profile if the person has some unique things on them whether it be an odd color or accessory. Nice thing about OkCupid still is that they hide you from straight people and vice versa so you don't get an eggplant in your dms. Also OkCupid went ham on unicorn hunters awhile ago. While that was good in of itself, the other consequences where not. As of now it's difficult for poly folks to find dates and queer couples to make friends on there. Shoot even make friends in general since the option isn't there any more. I get it's a dating site but like LGBTI+ people already have a hard time making queer friends in general. Removing the option to look for friends on OkCupid kind of suck tbh. TLDR - OkCupid is okay for queer folks but you are going to have to put some serious effort in. Like really.

I downloaded Free version of OkCupid and meet the love of my life the first day. I'd literally sellout for OkCupid. I found my fiancée in a weird way though. I was noticing all the fake accounts in my area as in the US. So, I clicked the passport option just out of curiosity and things started looking more real. The first women that popped up was from the philippines. I messaged her and she responded immediately. I was like woah that's a first. So, we got to know each other and found we had alot in common. We both are introverts. We both game. She memes like a American but isn't Americanised. We both enjoy fantasy & romance genre. All the songs she know I know and we sing together all the time. We both clingy. She literally wants to do everything together with me like even the smallest things like reading a manga. She's ready to be wizard fr fr and I love her for that. We both like cosplay. We both can converse deeply rather than being stuck at the surface level. She is very emotionally intelligent and open. She's very different than any women I ever came across in the states. I was upfront with her about my condition and she accepted me like it was second nature. As a narcissist I never meet a women I could be vulnerable with. Most of the time I'm trying to keep up appearances cause I never knew a women to care about the real me. All the parts of me I try to hide she pulls them out and accepts them and even highly likes what she finds. All the parts I was to afraid to show but always wanted to are being shown to her. I always wanted a genuine connection with someone. And, I hit the luck jackpot. She's a sweet country girl that doesn't follow the trends & doesn't want to be spoiled. But, she's so lovable and perfect I spoil her anyway. It's like God made her just for me. I never been so compatible in my life. I could spend all day talking about how perfect she is. Literally my ideal women. She loves the way I treat her even though I'm low empathy. Apparently nobody ever treated her nice. She says all the guys out there are white wash and call her ugly. But, to me she's greater than perfect. So, I've been doing my best to show her her worth. And, she's been doing the same for me. I always wanted somebody crazy about me fr. And, she's more than I could ever imagine of asking for. She even song me my favorite love song Guilty Crown - My Dearest. I know I found a person who loves me like that song describes. And, I'm definitely not worthy. But, she tells me I am and that we deserve each other. It will take my whole life and then some to be worthy of her love. But, it's a life I can't wait to give. I have a trip planned to see her this month or next month. And, we have a trip planned for Japan aswell. OkCupid is the goat. I couldn't make a better waifu if I tried. Praise God. He threw tf down on this one beyond words.