I'm a 25 year old virgin, ask me anything

@yaasshat I is straight male, these two things I want. @kyros96 "@upcat do you intend to keep your virginity? did u make any efforts to lose it ?" I don't intend to keep it for the rest of my life. I would rather not lose it with just any one kinda like @draig said. Though Some times feel like I might never experience any of that with someone. If I truly didn't care with whom I lost my virginity, then I feel like I just wouldn't know how to make that attempt just now.

@upcat The way I look at it is like this. There are many who regret a sexual experience, they wish it had never happened. I do not have these regrets.

@hell_hound7 Not only that, but all sperm are different. You essentially produce a whole football team. You have some that have rounded heads, more angular heads, some with double heads, some with double tails and they are either genetically retarded and swim in circles, or they are full-on battle sperm. In the instance that there has been more than one partner, the battle sperm will attack invader sperm. Sperm that carry the X chromosome (female) are also larger and have a better success rate of reaching the egg and coming to fertilization. Y chromosome sperm (male) are smaller and faster, but weaker than the larger X chromosome sperm. https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/cwUAAOSwSudcOdmS/s-l1600.jpg A fun read in college.

upcat @upcat If I'm honest with you, perhaps randomly losing it now would help you more to develop as an individual than waiting until you're on your mid 30s. Of course, this helped me but it doesn't means it's gonna be the secret formula for you as well

I'm with Soniya on that. At least I feel like that would help my situation a lot (the exact situation Soniya described), as it would take the frustration and wonder out of it, and the fear that I'll just never get to experience that quintessential part of life. I've taken to warning people in their late 20s that I meet that are laser focused on a career and completely disinterested in relationships, DO NOT CHOOSE TO WIND UP LIKE ME! I mean, I get it. I was like that through my 20's too. I had friends and college and career were everything. I always wished I had a girlfriend, but it was low priority, and I didn't even start to care about sex until my late 20s. But friends disappear once they start getting married and having kids, and building a social life from scratch after college/~mid-20s is freaking hard. There is nothing glorious about spending your adulthood alone. I dunno about getting just sex without a relationship, but it seems that becomes much harder after college age as well. My advice is, unless you think you'll regret it then don't pass up an opportunity if one comes your way.