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long distance relationship issue

leo_ss
Hmm, Well for one, You should tell her that you are upset that you aren't getting enough time with her, Don't yell at her or anything, But be clear and compassionate. If she cares about you, then she'll understand at the very least. Communication between people that love each other is very important. Now if she truly has no time normally, After telling her, your feelings, Try to set up a schedule, See her on weekends more for instance. Try to work around all her work. Maybe even help her with some things like homework or such, get some time in like that(But actually helping her and not grabbing her attention away). There are many things you can do to make it work, It's just you and she both have to be willing for it. Just my two cents.
meow_tron
lol, LDRs
kakashe
It's all better now guys apparently she was depressed and was having issues and didn't want me go get depressed by talking to her we are skyping again
shadowdemonx9
Definitely glad everything worked out for you in the end man. Seems my LDR took a dump on itself.
doublezero
AIGHT! Let me strech out a bit for this one! Errrrghh, mmmmmmm, Ok lets begin. A quick how to handle long distance relationships. No idea if this will help in the future. Being apart sucks, yep, it's true. (true story bro) But I seem to be king of these things. hahaha perhaps I am a sad sap for it. But I don't mind. So, I am currently involved in a long distance relationship with someone, thousands of miles away, in a totally different country, with a 6 hour time difference. And recently we have both been busy, so busy in fact, I think we were able to send a total of two, YES TWO, messages to each other today. We try to at least say good morning/good afternoon. But sometimes that's all we can manage. But with our live each so busy, it happens. We understand it. We trust each other. If we need to say things we say them. We are each considerate and thoughtful of the other. We have laid boundaries of things we do not want to do yet and we are cool about it. We have skyped and think it is funny how we are such idiots sometimes. but it is fun. We each have goals we are working toward, and each wants to be able to meet and spend time with the other. It is lightly expensive to do, as it is about a $3000 trip there and back. Along with very little free time, does not afford the ability to do such things so easily. So we will work toward it till we can. Also did I ever tell you about the "patience, understanding, love" idea I have? Those three things are incredibly important. Have patience and wait, understand her and her circumstances, and love her no matter what. You are both young yet so this is not something I expect you to understand. Also learning good communication will help. On both parts. I hope this can help. I hope it works out. If I need to share more of my random ideas and experiences, let me know. I am interested to help where I can.
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