The Love of my life is Asexual

To be honest don't get asexual people,i wish you good luck with your problems though. I've had my fair share of the experience,i just considered being friends with the person. I also wouldn't throw love around if you have dated other people your mind can get twisted with emotion if you keep that up,for when the time comes.

Love between incompatible people is doomed to fail. If you both don't see eye to eye on sex, it is likely that will not change. Do yourself and her a favor and tell her outright your expectations If she can't commit to handle them, you need to either rethink your expectations or end the relationship.

Did you guys miss the part where we have been together for 11 years now. I'm living in her Grandmother's House right now after she passed away. No matter who I end up with, she will always be a part of my Life. She's Family, more so then anyone I'm related to by Blood. I'm totally fine with my relationship with her. I really just wanted to know what other Asexual Otakus were like, that's all.

The length of a relationship doesn't matter. If you're not satisfied, then you won't be. But if you can deal, by all means, do what you see fit. My father was married for 15 years - didn't make a lick of difference when he divorced my step mother.

It sounds like he's pretty happy in his relationship guys, let's not put someone in a position where they actually have to defend their relationship to strangers. @Nakobass, there's a thread around the forum that was somewhat recent that had some people on there identifying as asexual or close to. I forget the name of it, but there might be some people that you can chat with on there

I'll just pitch in to say that asexual people can still love, so, if the only problem is sex, there's some things that can be done if you really need it... If she's open-minded enough, you can ask her about the possibility of casual sex with others, polyamory, or swinging... but these take a very open mind and very high level of trust. If either of you will get jealous, it could just damage your relationship(but in turn, also develop it more if both your true feelings are communicated). Then, there is abstinence or celibacy, if she cannot handle the idea of you doing anything with anyone else. You could still masturbate, and nobody should have any problems with that, it's acceptable in any kind of relationship. It's possible(if she's not grossed out by it), that she might be willing to help you to masturbate, but then I don't see it as being enjoyable for her if she does not like sex or watching others do it.