Is it wrong to be desperate for a relationship?

You've got nothing to be desperate about friend! ^___^ You'll get into a relationship soon enough!

Yeah it's not, plus girls can detect it and it throws them off. Just do your own thing and don't try too hard(You will get depressed if you do). Relax and it'll eventually come to you. All a matter of patience

yea, I always play it cool, I try to be as passive as possible or just go with the flow and have fun but at the same time I feel like that my passive attitude makes them think I'm not the type of guy to be in a relationship and I'm just the "fun guy" who's there just for the laughs, Im not the "available guy" or that Im not the type of guy who is attracted to anybody......if that makes any sense, I hope it makes sense lol :p

I do get you because I used to feel the way you do. The thing is, is that it never worked at all. Later on I didn't even try to be in a relationship and i was having fun, making them laugh, all that good stuff and eventually i found a relationship. it'll come when you don't try hard :D