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mirai_k

mirai_k

52 year old Male
Single
Last online 7 months ago
North Pittsburgh, PA
mirai_k
Nov 07, 21 at 5:51pm
You... mean there are that many new women around here? That's more than I expected! Thanks for raising my hopes up, I feel better now! =D
mirai_k
Nov 07, 21 at 3:42am
Thanks for the warning bro. In general when I see a woman's profile asking for hook-ups I immediately become sus because it's usually either a bot, a scammer, or a gay catfish trying to get straight guys. Regardless of which it is, all are worthless scum we're better off without around here. What we need is a way to ban these people by IP address to make it tougher for them to come back, albeit they can with a VPN. But it we work together we can at least make sure no one falls for their BS.
rainx
Rain @rainx commented on hello
Nov 06, 21 at 10:22am
Same worthless scambot. Has created multiple accounts over the past several months. Always female 27 to 28 years old, a handful of idyllic and attractive pics, and the same format of their profile description ending in discord tag. The account will be around for a few days and then will create a new one. Don't waste your time friending or replying. A couple other examples: https://maiotaku.com/p/chubbybunny2/info "I like being silly. I like drawing in an audience and they do love me. I love making people happy. I love who I am and I love being what I want. It's good to get to know each other on a personal level little by littl.. I want hookups and serious inquiries. If we live far away from each other we roleplay or whatever to hold us over until our next fuck. Discord-keLyjak2#6697" https://maiotaku.com/p/tine_byrne/info "Everyday is Earth Day for me. It should be for everyone. We have to love our surroundings and take care of our habitat. I recycle, limit my meat, and grow my own little herb garden. I like comedies. Laughter is the best medicine. Psstttt I’m no virgin though, I can promise you that. I like role play yiff. I love to cosplay. It’s my life. I am looking for sexual partners. I am down with hooking up more than once and being fwb :) Add me: Discord- tinebyrne2021#5624 telegram- Tiny_Tine_By" Don't waste your time when you see this.
mirai_k
Nov 07, 21 at 2:36am
Thanks, and glad that you found someone good for you. And you make a good point about talking/engagement, but the problem for me seems to be finding someone and reaching that point. And no worries, I certainly wouldn't treat a woman like a toy or an object or something I'm entitled to. They are people, with hearts and minds and feelings that should be respected and treated with caring and kindness. Their love is something to be earned and cherished rather than expected and taken for granted. Unfortunately far too many have seem to have forgotten that, but it's good to hear that some such as yourself haven't. I hope you and your waifu have many great days together in the future.
dyadka_yar
I can only tell you what worked for me on here. Met the most wonderful lady here. Some of it is the profile, some pictures help. Most of it is in the engagement. Talk to people and don't be afraid to be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. Most important is remember that it is another person you are talking to. Don't treat the person on the other end like some sort of toy or something for you are entitled to. As far as what to put on the profile, keep it simple. Don't write paragraphs about yourself since people tend to just sort of not read after the first few sentences or just sort of skim over it. List a few interests, some things you like to do. A few pictures are good so they know what you look like. That's all I can offer, hope it helps out some.
mirai_k
Nov 06, 21 at 11:14pm
Thanks for the advice on that. So far so good then, I already don't do those things and I am honest. And you're definitely right about being honest and upfront about things. It creates problems on both sides when people aren't. My #1 dating site complaint is when someone who is a transgirl or gay male claims they are a biological female to scam straight guys, wasting our time with their fraudulent BS. Nothing like searching for women to date and seeing an obvious dude with a beard registered as "female". I have no problems with LGBT people in general, I have some friends online who are LGBT, BUT all I ask is that they be upfront and not lie about it. And there's no excuse for it here since trans female is a gender option. I just wish this site would incorporate that into their search options too. Got any advice on things to include in one's profile? That's what I'm trying to figure out and improve on most rn.
kameiya
Don't try to push yourself on them. Most girls really don't like pushy. Also don't be a yes man either. Dating a puppet isn't fun at all. Actually be honest about your intentions and desires. It really hurts to have that hidden and making the other feel like a fool for being played
mirai_k
Nov 06, 21 at 9:02am
Holy crap, the dudes where you live sound really messed up. That stuff is just wrong, especially the sexual harassment thing. I feel for ya on the verbal abuse, I got plenty of that from my ex before I divorced her and moved out. She had some serious anger issues that I think stemmed from her own childhood abuse sadly, but her anger issues didn't start showing up until after we were married so I had no idea. I tried to help her but wasn't able to. In fairness, in the weeks after I left, she did apologize to me and we parted on good terms, so that was good. Still, before that happened things were pretty ugly with her yelling at me for sometimes a few hours straight, calling me various names and such and no matter what I did to try to keep the peace worked, it kept happening and it really wore at my sanity. I'm glad its over now. I'm not mad at her for it and I hold no grudges or ill will; life is too short for such feelings and they only hurt you anyway. I hope she's able to overcome her issues and have a good life, but that life definitely isn't going to be with me. I can't handle going through that again and I have no desire to be with anyone who has major anger or jealousy issues. And I hope things go better for you too, you deserve better than that.
kameiya
The same situation can be for different reasons. One reason can be a woman is rejected so many times cuz the guy makes it obvious that she's too ugly and an embarrassment to be seen with in in public. I got rejected lots cuz a guy said the girl he said yes to was pretty, men who yells at me for just standing next to them cuz it was an embarrassment to be assumed that I'm the gf, a guy who only went after married, and/or gorgeous girls, and men who only wanted foreign girls who looked pretty and knew how to flaunt it. Not to mention the last guy who agreed to be friends with me and said it was ok that I got close to him, and then turned around and said I was sexually harassing him to management, who was a crowd of women, that did support him and started telling the whole work place I was a sexual offender. To top it off my only bf caused major emotional damage by belittling me and verbally abusing me. So that destroys major trust. Especially with words alone. Something most users have to rely on. Trust on words cuz it's at times difficult to show action if the users are not living close by.
mirai_k
Nov 06, 21 at 8:13am
Great, now all the need to do is offer them in life-sized versions and mankind will finally be able to find true happiness! =D
gabriel_true
@mirai_k You are behind the times. Any true Otaku knows that Gundam model kits expanded their line to include waifus and idols.
mirai_k
Nov 06, 21 at 8:04am
I really feel for ya. Getting propositioned purely for sex is bad enough, but then to get treated like a prostitute on top of that?!?! Wtf. Plus I've heard the infamous dic pic stories too. If these dudes want to be with a woman instead of offering money for sex, they should try using currency of kindness to win a woman's heart instead. It's a much better investment. Sure, all of us guys have the biological urges for **gets anime red-faced from trying to say this in the presence of such a nice deredere** um... uh... reproductive practice, and yeah it feels great while it lasts but really, you spend a relatively small percentage of your time together doing that and far more of it doing other stuff like watching anime, gaming, going on walks together holding hands, playing mini-golf or other things you enjoy doing together. And besides, um, reproductive practice with someone you love and care for when the time is right for both of you is a LOT better than a one-night stand with someone you don't know well anyways.
kameiya
Which isn't bad at all. I'm extremely sickened by these nasty people who only goes for sex instead of actually understanding me and wanting to build up connection with me. I usually get these nasty old geezers who keeps thinking I'm buyable. I have major problems in finding a potential bf who wants to approach me like that instead of physical reasons.
mirai_k
Nov 05, 21 at 9:57pm
Election fraud has been going on for quite some time, long before the Trump-Biden election and BOTH parties use it. Look at some at the congressional district maps and you'll see that some of them are in some very weird shapes that obviously appear to have been drawn to include certain people and exclude others aka gerrymandering. In PA you only have to show ID the first time you vote and after that you only need to sign to vote. My ex-wife left the state about 5 years ago and I saw her name on the voter rolls so if someone wanted to commit fraud they'd only need to sign her name to use her vote and with modern tech it would be easy to get a list of names of people who have moved out of area in recent years so fraudsters could vote in their name. Mail in voting makes it ridiculously easy to do so since there's no ID, no showing up in person, and zero chance of being caught. One political operative who gets the right post office job can swing an election by thousands in minutes by tossing out clumps of ballots (they're sorted by zip code) from zip codes that tend to vote for a certain party. And these are only SOME of the forms of election fraud. God help us if they ever allow internet voting.
taiyou
Jun 11, 21 at 8:34pm
Hillary won the popular vote by only a few million. Which is actually not a lot. Thats just a single city worth of people. And in all honesty, regardless of what side they are on, shouldnt trust any politician at face value
mirai_k
Nov 05, 21 at 9:32pm
If you can't find Hotel California it's because it was renamed. It's now called MaiOtaku.
mirai_k
Nov 05, 21 at 7:26am
Thanks for the advice, you make a good point. Also, great waifu choice with Ruka! Def best girl from Rent-A-Girlfriend.
reisenpai66
Women do tend to be approached more often, but also tend to hang in more diverse groups it seems to where its easy to find people. Ive found all my ex's from friend groups / mutuals. Its hard to find a gf if your entire friend group is guys, so once you surround yourself with different groups, you're better off. Thats my experience.
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