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clarky1992

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How To Prevent Being A Victim Of Date Rape

Dating should be enjoyable and fun. It should be a nice way to get to know each other and explore new romantic opportunities. Unfortunately, other people have a different agenda. Women mostly trust the person they are going out with.(according to women from callmechat.com) With this, some guys take advantage and assert their control and dominance through rape.

Here are important things to remember when you are going out on a date with guys you barely know:

* Avoid drinking a lot. Try to control your alcohol intake during the date. Be sure that you still have complete control of your senses and your body perception. When you’re drunk, guys can easily take advantage since you will be weak and helpless. Also, keep an eye on your drink and don’t lose sight of it. This is one way to avoid being drugged by your date.

* Limit your flirting. Flirting may be the most enjoyable part of the evening, but avoid overdoing it. Getting too close or intimate to your date is not a good idea even if you know them pretty well. Most date rape cases happen to women who know and trust their rapist. Always know when to draw the line when it comes to flirting. Too much is almost always not good.

* Go out on a group date. If there are other people around, there will be less chances of your date taking advantage of you. Avoid being left alone with your date, with no one within hearing distance.

* Have a prearranged ride home. When you are alone in the car with a stranger, you are very vulnerable. Try to have someone else with you — most preferably a female friend — during the ride home.

* Don’t go out unprepared. Always have a mace, a pepper spray, or even just your cologne spray in your bag, which you can easily grab in an emergency situation. We all know that men are physically stronger than women, so be prepared with objects that can protect you and allow you to get an equal footing with your date.

Be knowledgeable about your rights. Some women think that people will not believe they have been raped because they have been going out with their attacker for some time or they know them pretty well. Any forced penetration against your wishes is considered rape. Most importantly, don’t brush it off. Know and accept that this can happen to you or to anyone, so always be prepared. Be on guard and be aware of what’s happening during the date. Your wits and senses are your most valuable weapons during emergencies.

After many years with someone, you may find yourself alone. The thought can be, at times, overwhelming. It should not have to be that way. The best years may still be in the offing. What you should know about seniors dating, can be enlightening. Here are things to consider.

There is no need to be apprehensive. There are a great many people in your situation. There are a number of reasons that may cause you to be alone. Perhaps a while back, you lost someone close. Maybe you have gone through a divorce or separation. At some point, you may want to find someone special again.

Your spouse may have died. Maybe you are afraid that someone new will replace your special someone. Some people can never be replaced. However, you can still have some happiness in life. Everyone deserves that. Perhaps it is time to accept the challenge, and see what happens.

Would you like to meet new people? Why not start online? There are many places with people in your own age group. They may be in similar situations as you. When you meet friends online, there is no pretense. You will not have go out right away. All you have to do is meet and chat, or email. Meet as many new friends as you like. Find friendship or love. It is up to you.

It takes a great deal of the guesswork out of things. You have the opportunity to get to know people before going out with them. Communicate with as many different people as you like. You are not limited to one person.

When you finally decide to go out, you will know each other, already. You will know their likes and dislikes. It gives you a good idea, of what to expect. Maybe you are not interested in a permanent relationship. Choose someone that feels the same way. You may be in need of a new spouse. You can find someone that has the same needs.

Final thoughts

Are you up on what you should know about seniors dating? It can fun and easy. Take your time and meet as many people as you like. This is very easy to do online. It is never too late to enjoy yourself and the company of others.