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How do I form a relationship with a girl?

orangecatcow
I don't understand your question. I think you realize , there's no 1 line takes all sort of approach. knowing how to talk with others is a skill, the art of communication. an interaction is dynamic, you have to watch out for those little changes, in voice tonality, posture, eyes, face, etc. you adapt to all of that. are you asking how not to get someone to like you? people will dislike/like, you regardless of you "leading them on". Protip: One of the first things people think when they meet someone new is, "What is their intention?". Maybe not consciously, but just keep it in mind.
manny_heart
Just talk to them like you normally do with friends n such ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ If they like you or not that's totally dependent on them and how "they" perceive you. There's honestly not much you can do after that. Everyone has a couple of standards or an idea of what they like depending on who they are or what they've experienced. So just be and act however it is that makes you more comfortable, if someone likes the way or who you are then cool if they don't then that's fine. No need to dwell on something that would not work because you did not match or had chemistry. And if you do meet someone and the both of you end up digging each other then just continue to be yourself like you were. They liked you right? So just be true to that. The rest is more natural and it's up to the both of you on how you feel each other out. As far as being more sociable in general? That's an entirely different subject. And something you can learn to overcome but I'm not a professional so i won't give advice on that lol ^~^"
wugi
Okay so really your ask one questions here: how do i approach women that im interested in right? that i do not know. bc if your already friends with a girl or know her... and your interested in her, your questions should instead be, "how do i get out of the friend zone?" right? also the friend thing with women. Though that is important, that should not be something that bothers you to ask. For me, unless a girl outright confesses to me or something equally intimate, i dont think her as into me. Doesn't matter if shes a friend or what not. If your just "kirito" like you described, and girls that are your friends like you, and your not actively leading them on and they understand your boundaries... idk why that's something thats really your problem. If another girl likes you and you dont share the feelings back, and yall are friends. you can drop hints but for the most part don't worry about it. If they stop talking to you after awhile bc your convo run dry, thats normal. If they stop talking to you bc they had hidden interests for you that you didnt express back, thats also really normal and not really your problem. Trying to worry about things you can't control will just make your life harder. im also going to assume that when you say you like a girl, you want to pursue a relationship with her. Also you really asked two things, how to I approach strangers and how to I pursue a relationship with a girl you like. First to approach strangers, its pretty hard if your not socially comfortable being in uncomfortable situations. that sounds painful bc it is. Basically you have to approach stranger and talk to them alot. Being around stranger makes you uncomfortable, but if you do it alot then you will be more comfortable putting yourself in naturally uncomfortable situations. 2nd, talking to the girl you like. you want this girl to be comfortable with you. you want to appear fun and interesting to be around. Honestly laughter is one of the simplest ways to get people to like you. make her laugh and set up a good impression on her. Laughing is chemically proven to make us feel more enjoyable around someone else. Also i dont want to dive too much into this, just add me if you want to talk further
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gurren921
Give her father 4 goats and 50lbs of grain. Then she'll have to talk to you.
bob_loblaw
Just play the "I'm a nice guy" card over and over and over and over and over and over and over again... and mix in guaranteed dead end conversation starters such as "What's up?" and "How are you doing?" which prisons her possible replies to "I'm good, and you?" Then when the conversation inevitably dies, make sure to follow up with messages like "Hi, did you get my last message?" and "If you didn't notice, I sent you a message."
koreaboo
Just like, talk to her, that's literally it. Don't make it into a big deal, it isn't anything special. We aren't magical creatures, we don't bite.. always :3
gunvoltx
The first thing you want to do is not think about girls as if they are special creatures and realize that some girls might feel the same about guys. Just treat them like human beings with hopes and dreams like you. Speak to her as if you're already friends or as if she's one of your guy friends if it helps. Second: This is important when talking to a girl you should speak to her like an equal. Don't have the idea that a girl is above you in any way. No girl is "out of your league", so don't worry about that. Third: CONFIDENCE! It's normal to feel shy or anxious, but if you really want to talk to a girl you should do it with confidence. If you don't have much confidence yet, just build some up beforehand. But if you're in a pinch, you can always just pretend to be confident. False confidence is better than no confidence at all I suppose. Fourth: This is a no-brainer, but make sure you're clean and you look good. You're not going to get anywhere if you look like trash or smell bad. Put on some nice looking clothes. Maybe just a shirt with sleeves and buttons and a nice pair of pants. I hope this helps, my friend. Good luck.
merena
I don't really feel like giving response since I honestly find this utterly hilariously stupid. No offense. I'm not going to talk instead of other females, because hey, we're all different, got different opinions and reactions. What bothered me about you is that you're searching some kind of "script" for how to be. First of all, being oneself is important, also use your brain. I don't know how male friends really act since I'm female, but I treat every gender the same way, so never bother about such. Don't put a "this is a female and this is a male so I'm gonna treat them differently"-act. If you want to make sure all you're interested is friendship, make it clear to them, god damn. It's not very complicated. Well, this is my opinion and point of view, and you all got yours which I'm gonna respect. Just being clear about mine too. Then to next one about how getting in that relationship... I can't answer that since I rejected and been rejected so far, no relationship. I actually enjoy being single, got no needs or hurry into relationship. The time will come when come. I'll just say that be who you are and it's okay to get rejected, they got their own feelings after all, so don't force it. But don't lose hope either, you'll someday meet someone that might feel the same/be interested in you too. In short: don't over think it, just be yourself, express yourself clear and don't force it.
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