What do you bring to the table?

In all honesty though, it's taken me years of battling self-hatred to come to terms with this, but what I bring to the table is that I'm a very compassionate, sincere and nurturing person. I'm not a great flirt and I'm pretty bad at small talk, but I'm intelligent and witty with a very silly sense of humor. I have a hard time connecting with people, but I get very excited whenever the prospect of meeting someone I think I can really connect with arises and always try my best to make it happen.

Positive: I am loyal and compassionate to a fault. I detest cheating and would never dream of cheating on someone. I am a great listener and a nice shoulder to cry or vent on. I try to find the best in people and I am willing to work and compromise in any disputes. I am really laid back and rather go with the flow then take charge and be demanding. I really dislike drama or confrontation and would rather talk things out instead of fighting with my partner. I enjoy exploring and trying new things. I would say that I am pretty good in certain areas such as psychology, history, language and certain sciences. I am able to own up to my mistakes and swallow my pride. Cons: I am really, really shy. I am oblivious to many different things when it comes to dating and relationships. I tend to overthink a lot of tiny things that really is not a big deal. I am not as financially stable as I would like. I want to get to a point in which I can be comfortably financially independent but sadly I am still working on it. Physically speaking I am not as fit as I want to be and am currently working on bettering myself. I tend to internalize everything. I will blame myself for things that is completely out of my control. All in all I enjoy a quiet and peaceful life. I would be a pretty chill boyfriend who does not ask for much.

I enjoy cuddles so I would want to hold my bf a lot if I had one. Though it might come off as annoying. I am not high maintenance so I won't ask a lot of him. Simple AND Fun Dates, AND Especially HIS Company. I enjoy anime so hopefully that's a plus. I'm more a listener than talker. I am blunt and don't like lies so honesty would be a part of it. Idk what else one would think as a positive thing in a relationship though That I have in myself.