What are thing some women look to find in a man?

I agree with @Manga_bird up there, "partnership" is key. Someone that puts in the effort you put in. I think this probably goes any for any kind of relationship, appreciation for the other person can go a really long way.

the angry men are angry on this thread humor a personality kindness stability if your looking for a man when your older maturity common interests

Humor (subjective) a personality (subjective) Kindness (subjective) stability if your"'re" looking for a man when your older (subjective) Maturity (subjective) Common interests (subjective) Notice a pattern? BE YOURSELF.

everything is subjective as everyone is different i agree though, dont lie if you want a long term relationship with them, or you risk loosing them later (plus how it playing a character and never being yourself fun?)

No no I am not advocating deception or anything like that. I used the word "useful" for a reason my friend. You see, I have always found that advice "be yourself" or "be honest" to be nebulous and not very handy in yielding results. Let me give an example. Say that I ask for your advice on how to get a job. You might suggest ways that I can improve my resume, suggest that I network, tell me to get references, volunteer, etc. Things that I can do. Saying "be yourself" is tantamoubt to telling me to roll the dice. You could suggest that a fat guy drop some weight, a borinf guy find a hobby, an arrogant guy to humble himself, a shy guy to put himself out there, or just generally to cultivate a positive and engaging atmosphere as well as advice on how to do that. Or even advise someone to engage in hobbies that interest them and talk with others about them with enthusiasm. Doing so makes it likely that they'll meet someone whom they genuinely enjoy being with no lies. Also, people are not prescripted game characters with set personalities. We are constantly changing. You could decide today to be someone different. Your personality is not engraved in stone.

A coward could decide to try and be more brave, someo e quiet could start being more talkative, someone stupid or ignorant could get educated and open their mind. Change isn't easy but it is possible. And if doing so makes your life more enjoyable and increases the chances of you finding a special someone of your own then strive to better yourself.

personally i believe in putting yourself out there to a friend or significant other (not including significant others family ) if you want to be close with that person i think you should be honest with who you are and not hold back (to a reasonable degree) i want a guy to be 100% his self (or hers) with me instead of slowly showing himself