Yeah, piercings I don't mind, but the more extreme ones just don't seem too pleasing to me XP and yeah, that sucks, cutting is really bad, a lot of the time people end up with permanent scars and it'll always be a reminder of bad things x_X it's so much worse when really nice caring people do it too
Meh, I suppose it is that way for some people, I don't really feel that way though, probably because I'm a bit indifferent when it comes to pain and body mods/mutilation, it always makes me feel sad when I learn that a really nice girl cuts, like my ex, I got really depressed when I found out she did that >_<
((and if you didnt know Danke is thank you in german))