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serenity_chan
Title says it all. I've pretty much given up all hope in my perfect guy, so I might well say what I'm looking for. I'm a petite girl, who's kinda chubby due to health issues, but I'm currently trying to lose weight. I have some personal issues, but other than those I'm fine if you don't mind a girl who's clingy and who will love you to death in a good way. I've been abandoned by the two guys I loved the most and third guy just sees me as a friend. -_- I'm looking for a strong, handsome military man or just someone who can treat me right. I was once told I deserve nothing but the very best just like a princess and that I shouldn't settle for less. If I had to describe my perfect guy, he'd be tall and handsome with dark hair and brown eyes, he wouldn't abandon me, he'd be honest, he'd be protective of me, he'd treat me like a princess, he'd love and accept me for who I am, he'd be a Christian, he'd be good with children and animals, he'd be respectful, and he'd do anything for me. I'm just a princess looking for my prince. And ideally I'd like to settle down and get married and start a family before 2020 and before I'm 30. Emotional connection is very important to me. I don't have a job yet, but I am looking. I can't drive yet. I'm not very good at cooking or cleaning. My dream is to be a loving wife and mother. I'm just looking for my prince, the Sousuke to my Kaname and the Mamoru to my Usagi. No guys 30 or above or under 18. I've never had a relationship last longer than six months but I want to change that. If you treat me right, I'll stay by your side forever and I'll do anything for you. Distance doesn't matter as long as we're in the same country. I may come across as cold, but that's only because I've been abandoned so many times, I'm dating because I'm looking for my future husband, not to be abandoned again. So, yeah that's pretty much it.
illuminous
Hello, um I'm not sure if I meet your "perfect guy" description but I feel as though we might get along. I'm actually ok with you being clingy because I kinda am too lol ^-^ I'm not in the military though and am not a Christian and am not rich. I do work out though and am honest if your ok with someone being brutally honest. Honesty isn't always soothing, sometimes it's hurtful, but I'm honest if you would be ok with that. I get most of what your saying but I feel as though there may be some things that you may disapprove of me. But anyways I am respectful and am protective of the girl I love and would do anything for her so long as she cares for me! Message me if interested to get to know each other ok? Have a good day :)
thesailingteacup
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siruboo
Aug 09, 16 at 7:16pm
Got to love failing
rainx
Aug 10, 16 at 11:41am
Maybe its a girl thing, but I've honestly never understood the drive to start a family by the time you hit 30. The few girls I've known in their early to mid-20s who rushed to fast into a relationship to beat that deadline wound up having terrible relationships because they didn't spend longer in the relationship phase getting to really know their man to make sure he would be a worthwhile parent. That in turn lead to a failed relationship/marriage and depression along with being bogged down with one or two kids and at best a "baby daddy" relationship that wasn't completely hostile. I can understand wanting a family at some point, but setting some sort of arbitrary deadline that you're a failure if you don't have "this and this" by the time you hit a specific age is just setting your own mental state and being up for failure if you don't hit that self imposed goal. I'm not saying what you want is right or wrong, but wanting to start a relationship for the almost lone and single goal of getting married and popping our babies is already setting yourself up for headache down the road. Get your own ducks in a row and put yourself on a solid fiscal and mental ground and enjoy your youth before you really look at your biological clock as some "gun to the head, gotta get it by this date" ultimatum. I've known plenty of people who didnt start families until their late thirties or even a couple in their early 40s. Just enjoy your life and freedom while you have it, because once it's gone, you aren't getting it back.
assam
I wish you luck on finding that perfect someone ^^
thesailingteacup
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neet_one
There's nothing inherently wrong with wanting a prince to treat you like a princess, lots of girls want to be a princess after all. The real question though becomes what makes you feel that you're deserving of being treated like a princess by a prince? Just a few days ago a friend actually told me I have a problem where I want a princess but that I am no prince, in his words. While they're right that I'm no prince, I wouldn't say I'm holding out for a princess. Thing is you have to be realistic about this stuff. I'm sure it's not what you want to hear but if you hold out for the 'perfect' person you might find yourself waiting a -very- long time, take it from someone who knows first hand.
reclaw
Aug 10, 16 at 2:35pm
I agree with neet. First work on yourself, then work out what you want from others.
siruboo
Aug 10, 16 at 2:36pm
If your into anime I doubt your a prince
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