Waiting for the right person

New to the site but anyways am I wrong for waiting on a girl to come to me? I have no problem with being social or anything like that. It's just that I'm more attracted to women who are aggressive with their approach to men. Should I not take that approach? What are your thoughts on it?

Waiting for the right person is not the problem. Knowing the right person is, here's where honest to goodness communication comes to use. Being aggressive can also mean being desperate, so please take time to know the person first. At the end of the day, it's up to you.

I should have used the word playful. I don't mean aggressive as in desperate but I could say I like when women approach me.

Well, I'm not one to speak here, but in human sociology, men who approach women have much better luck with women than men who wait. It shows assertiveness, social intelligence, and romantic proof if the male does so while still giving room for female choice. I like when women approach me too, so I can relate. I'm just saying you'd have better luck otherwise if you made the first move.

women typically like assertiveness, but at the same time you gotta remember women on sites like these get tons of guys approaching them all the time. If you don't make yourself stand out a bit it'll be easy to get lost in the flood. Of course because of the high volume of guys throwing themselves at women it becomes very easy to say something that will make them loose interest. So you really gotta be on your A game. That's not to say women here don't approach men, a number have come to me in my time here. I just wouldn't hold your breath if that's gonna be your tactic is all.