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altair88
Well what are most peopled thoughts on it? Have you tried it or would like to? Do you feel comfortable with being tied up or doing the tying? Well recently I only started thinking about it. Personally I wouldn't mind trying something like it. Granted I'd prefer something less risky to start out with.
amrodcalanor
Like handcuffs and being tied to the bed? So many things could go wrong with that hahahaha
altair88
True but for most that's apparently part of the excitement. kinda like sex in a public place and the thrill of not knowing if you'd get caught or not.
rebeccaloveless
I find nothing in wrong exploring sexuality in that way as log as both parties understand what will happen, both are consenting, and have their safe word. I wouldn't mind trying it at all, you can't say you don't like something unless you've tried it :) I personally wouldn't feel comfortable getting tied up or restrained due to personal reasons, I could probably handle collars ad being whhipped, but if the other person liked to be bound, I'd do that for them.
altair88
Yay someone gets it, Rebecca I totally agree with you.
rebeccaloveless
I think a lot of people are afraid to try it because it's a true act of submission. To give yourself sexually is one thing, but to put absolute trust into the other person during a vulnerable and personal moment to the point where you will have no control and then possibly enjoy the submission I feel is what people are afraid of. Think about it, as children, we're told not to put ourselves in vulnerable situations, and others are told sex has to be a certain way and if you enjoy other types of sex it's wrong, so the idea of bondage is still kind of taboo to groups of people. However, sex is nothing we should fear and if you're unsure of the person you're trying bondage with, maybe you need to wait for someone else. I say, start slow, couple spankings, pushing up against the wall, ect. and move forward from there once both parties are ready. Sorry for any grammatical errors :P
altair88
Well I personally don't judge over grammatical errors. And what you say is certainly true. I brought up the topic of bondage cause it's one of the taboo words that not everyone is comfortable talking about. I for one am willing to try it if I find the right partner in life. I started this for those whose curiosity has been peak and they wish for a place to discuss it.
altair88
I'm certain your words will prove quite useful to those curious about trying it out even if only once.
meijirurouni89
Youd be suprised whst sacrifices im willing to make for someoneI deeply care about. Though bondage Iis not my cup of tea.
altair88
that's cool I know it's not for everyone but if any was curious or had questions here could be a place to discuss it without being hunters or ridiculed.
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